I have been a Forgotten Advocate for almost five months, and that time has overlapped with our “waiting time” to become foster and adoptive parents. One of my greatest joys in these past few months has been simply to be used by God to serve the foster care community in ways that I never thought possible. God has amazed me!
Early November, I was able to share about TFI and our city’s needs in a local church. I walked away with twenty-five names of people that were interested in serving and many of those people were specifically interested in mentoring. Interestingly, TFI Columbia does not currently have a mentoring program, but I walked away from that building thinking, “God, You are obviously up to something here! Please help me to steward well these people who want to serve.” Feeling
really overwhelmed, I emailed the TFI leaders for advice and the contacts I
have in my local DSS to assess the need.
A very excited worker emailed me back saying she was “thrilled beyond
words” to get my email. What a great
encouragement to see God connecting the dots and begin the work of meeting a
desperate need! I feel so honored to be
a voice for the needs around me, in the name of Jesus.
I’ve been stewing over this verse for several days: “But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what he has done has been done through God” (John 3:21 NIV). That phrase “done through God” could also be stated as wrought, performed, worked out, or produced by God.
I can plainly see that God’s hand is at work in and through me, as I desire to walk in His truth and light. However, John 3 pinpoints our greatest goal: For those around us to plainly see that every good thing in our lives is a work of our mighty and gracious God!
After having two biological children, Melisha and her husband Ryan, began the domestic adoption process and through this experience, God moved them to also pursue foster parenting. They serve full time in campus and family ministry through GraceLife Church. As a homeschooling mom, Melisha’s motto is “Make disciples!” She is excited to do this in her family and in every opportunity God gives her.